Fill in the Blank Personal History

 2020 was a crazy year!! I had good intentions of keeping up on my blog but with Covid and other stuff going on I got sidetracked. However, I wasn't completely slacking off. I put together a fill-in-the-blank personal life history. Right now it is five pages but I plan on adding to it every now and then. 

My goal was to make writing our personal history as simple as possible. It's written in Google Docs. You're welcome to use it for personal, non-commercial use. Feel free to download it then make any changes to it to suit your different life events. Also, if you have any recommendations I would love to hear them. 

Fill in the Blank Life Story

Beginning Your Research Step 1 – FamilySearch.org

On FamilySearch.org, starting your research is simple.

1. Open your ancestor’s page and look to the right of the screen. You’ll see these drop-down menus: Research Help, Search Records, Latest Changes, Tools, and Print. Some might be expanded some might not. Click on the arrow to the left side of the menu to expand or shrink the options.
2. When you expand Search Records, you’ll see some common databases that you can search through. I always start with FamilySearch. It’s free and it’s easy to attach the sources you find to your ancestor. (Searching through the other databases, such as Ancestry, requires you to have an account to research.)
3. From here you can start opening different sources and comparing it with what you already know. Some things you should compare are birthdates, death dates, spouse, parents, children, and even location.
   
4. When researching women, you’ll usually be searching with their maiden name. Because of this, you may want to refine your search and change their last name from their maiden name to their married name. Census records and death records may not have their maiden names listed. To do this, look to the left of the research screen and click on Refine Your Search.
5. When you find a match, go ahead and attach the source and input any new information onto their page.

Don’t be afraid to look around and click links. This is how you learn the website and find out what is available. However, when saving information or merging people please make sure the information is accurate before making any changes.

Writing a Biography

Now that you have a Family Search account and are a little more familiar with the platform we can start learning and discovering our relatives and finding out more about who they were.

The best way I have found to both learn and teach family history is to try writing a biography of one of your ancestors. This helps you know what to search for and keeps you on track if needed. I've created a Family Biography Outline that you can use in both a Word Document and as a PDF. Just a quick reminder, make sure you write down your sources (I forgot to put this on my outline).

When choosing a person to write a biography about I would recommend choosing somebody who was born around 1830 or younger. The reason behind this is because you will find the records and sources start having more information in them and they will give you better leads for your research.

First, log in to Family Search and find a family member you would like to research or learn more about. To do this go to the Tree tab in the upper left-hand corner. If you look at the screenshot you'll see what it looks like. Number 1 is how you can zoom in or out. Pushing the arrow at 2 will expand your tree. I prefer looking at the Fan Chart. To do this click on 3 and select Fan Chart.

I like the fan chart because it shows you more generations at once so you can choose the ancestor you want to research a little easier. You can choose how many generations back you can see at once by clicking on one of the numbers on the right of Generations. It also shows you their birth and death dates (if there's room).

Go ahead and look through the names, click on their names and information, look to see who has sources and who doesn't. If somebody doesn't have many sources attached they might be good ones to research.

Once you've chosen somebody to write a biography on, print out the outline and start filling it out. If you can't find some of the information that's ok. We'll learn how to research and read sources later.

Becoming Familiar With Family Search

Once you've logged in to family search from your computer you'll see the Family Search homepage. This page provides you with record hints, a todo list for you to create, memories of family members that have recently been uploaded to the database, and a list of ancestors you've recently looked at.

Family Search User Homepage

Let's look at the record hints also known as the recommended tasks (much like the leaves in Ancestry). If you see a blue card next to a name, these are possible sources for you to attach to your tree. These sources could include birth records, census records, and death records. 

OK, so I'm going to go off on a little tangent. Sources are EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. They hold the key to proving certain things such as date of birth, date of death, and marriage dates. For example, one of my ancestor's names was Bertinius Bendixson. Some thought he died as a baby and others thought he lived a full life. Everybody kept changing his information or merging him if two people with the same name were created. After going through this a lot we hit a goldmine with sources. There were two children named Bertinius. One died as a baby and the other who was born a year or two later was given the same name and lived a good life. This is why attaching those sources is so important and valuable. 

Getting back on track, looking at these sources can tell you a lot about your ancestors and can lead you to new discoveries and new family. Here's my recommendation, if you're just getting started or it's been a while since you've been on Family Search, look at the recommended tasks. It will help you get a feel of what you can find and things you may want to search for when looking for those ancestors.

You can also do this from any mobile device. Once you've downloaded the FamilyTree app and after you logged in you'll see your tree. You can access the recommended tasks by clicking on the three lines at the top left of the screen then clicking on Ancestors with Tasks on an Android device or clicking on tasks at the bottom of your iDevices (iPad, iPhone...). 

Getting Started With Family Search

Creating a Family History Account

If you're interested in family history, one of the best resources to start with is familysearch.org. This is the resource I use the most when I research or when I want to find information and stories about my ancestors. This resource is completely free to everyone. You don't have to be a member of the Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints to use it.

This short video walks you through setting up an account with Family Search using the Family Tree app.

Family Tree App

5 Steps to Setting Up A Family Search Account. 

1. Download the Family Tree app or go to familysearch.org
2. Click "Create Free Account"
3. Add in your personal information: Name, birthdate, gender...
4. Create a username and password
5. Complete your registration by verifying the email address you supplied. 

Once you've signed up you can log in and start adding your family! 

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Family History: It’s More Than Just Names, Dates, and Places

What do you do if you don’t like doing research, but you want to participate in family history? This is a common question. Family history is more than just dates and places. It’s about learning who you are and where you come from. It’s about learning from your ancestors’ experiences and knowing who they are.

View of FamilySearch.org Stories Tab

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So, how do you learn without all the research? Many online family history programs have a place for people to upload stories, write memories, or post pictures. Familysearch.org allows this information to be seen by everybody if the person is deceased. On Ancestry.com the 

View of FindAGrave.com

the person that posted the information can choose if they want the information to be public or private. FindAGrave.com may also have a bio or life sketch on the deceased person. My point is that the information is there, all you need to do is go to your preferred family history website, type in the name of your ancestor and hopefully, (if somebody else has done the research and written or posted a story) start learning.

I would suggest starting small. Some of the bios and life histories can be long and tedious to read. Cut them down into sections. Instead of reading a five to ten-page history, read the first story, start with one paragraph or maybe two and then be done for a while (unless you want to keep reading). You don’t usually eat a pizza in one big bite, you usually eat one slice at a time, one bite at a time. 

Family History Research Overview

There are two ways you can research your ancestors, there's manual and there's digital. We need to understand and learn both. I usually do digital research, it's what I'm comfortable with and it can yield quick results. However, not everything is online or in a digital format. If that's the case you need to know where to physically look for what you want.

The Manual Search

Marilyn Kelly Fielding's Apron

 Searching manually can be difficult and can take a lot of time but it can also be fun. I love looking through those items that have been passed down from my ancestors and finding out the stories behind those items. Why were they passed down? Why were they special? Who did they originally belong to? For example, when my grandmother passed away I was lucky enough to get her aprons. Whenever we went to her home she was always cooking and she always wore them. This is something I will pass to my girls.
I also love the feeling of finally finding something you've searched a long time for. The work you put in when researching manually is worth it and in my opinion, can be more rewarding than finding something on the computer.

If you search manually, I recommend:

1.  Search for what you can get easily and through things you may already have such as journals or photo albums.
2. Talk to living relatives. Find out if they have any information such as birthdates, marriage dates, or places they lived
3. Obituaries and other news articles. 
4. Church records to find birth and baptism records, marriage record, and death information.
5. Government records to find official land information, wars they may have served in, and birth, marriage, and death certificates.

The Digital Search

The digital search can be easier and faster but comes with difficulties of its own. The biggest issue I have found with a digital search is knowing what is true and what is not. You need to keep in mind that anybody and everybody can put something online so I recommend keeping to sites you know and trust. Family blogs or informational websites can hold valuable information as to dates, places, and stories but if they don't have credible sources listed take the information and research it yourself. These types of websites can give you a great starting point but you may not want to take it at face value.

For a digital search, I recommend starting with these (not in any particular order):

• Ancestry.com
• FindAGrave.com
• BillionGraves.com
• FamilySearch.org
• FindMyPast.com
• MyHeritage.com
• Search engines

When you use a search engine you need to be careful. This is what I was referring to above but it can still give you fun information. For example, when I Google "Richard Nettle 1815" I find a link to a book called "The Salmon Fisheries of the St. Lawrence and Its Tributaries". It was written by one of my ancestors, Richard Nettle.

You'll also notice in my screenshot links to other people that is not my ancestor. Just be careful and make sure you verify what you find with what you already know.